Dating in the ‘mature’ age is indeed not the time to just fill in the blanks, but also based on a commitment to be together in the future. Not like a teen-style dating where there is only love affairs that ‘he said’ makes baper, adults are more focused on the life that will be lived in the future together with a complementary partner.
Therefore, for adult couples it should be to address the relationship in accordance with their age. This includes publishing public relations, for example on social media. Those who often show off relationships are considered less mature, but it will also lead to many things that are less comfortable. For that we see the reasons why dating relationships in adulthood is better not to be disclosed.
1. Avoid the question ‘when is marriage?’
The question ‘when is marriage?’ for some people who have entered the ‘proper’ age are no stranger. Indulgence in intimacy with a partner can be one of the triggers for people around to increasingly hardworking ask that question to you.
2. Many activities are more useful
Someone at a mature age certainly has a lot of activity compared to taking care of his love relationship every time. Mature relationships should be able to divide the time between obligations with things outside of it. Including the couple, because to be able to continue going to a more serious stage not only requires the pretext of love but also many other things. Working and doing many useful things will be a support for your future relationship.
3. Minimize the opportunities for others to interfere in your relationship
Romance relationships that are often revealed can be one of the triggers for others to interfere in your affairs. It could be because that person has a problem with you or your partner so that makes him use what they know about your relationship on display on social media. This can threaten the relationship that you have maintained.
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4. Much indulgence in intimacy does not reflect maturity
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People in adulthood certainly many have the idea that indulgence in intimacy is a childish thing. Your age friends no longer consider the intimacy you are constantly exhibiting is something that makes you baper and jealous but turns into something that is quite annoying.
5. Your relationship is privacy that should be maintained
Indeed there is nothing wrong if you want to capture moments together occasionally. While it is not done continuously, let alone to spit personal problems and make social media as a ‘diary book’. Your relationship is the privacy that you should protect. Confide in social media will only invite other people’s comments. If you really need people to give input, then it would be better if you share your problems privately with people you trust.
6. If in the end your relationship has to end, it won’t be a hassle to erase traces on social media
Dating relationships don’t always go smoothly to the aisle. When that happens, those of you who are dating diligently upload your time together with your ex, then you will find it difficult to delete your photos. Not to mention if it still leaves remnants because of photos on social media that are eternal. Do not be surprised if one day you find your photos together again.
7. Show off at the right time, for example when your proposal or marriage, guaranteed not to be protested
The last point is the most important point where you can show off your relationship without worrying about all the risks above. When your relationship has reached the level of ‘success’, then the happy moment must be shared. If you rarely go out together to upload photos together, then it’s time for you to show off and make everyone baper.
Now that’s 7 reasons why dating relationships in adulthood is better not to be disclosed. Adult couples can certainly do their best for the continuity of the relationship. Be wise in making decisions, including matters of romance as well as social media.
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