Friend, what do you think of guys who have a hobby of making insinuations to those around him? Instead of talking directly to the person concerned, eh he even quipped with dropped sentences. As if it had become a natural trait, the heinous innuendos he often did were usually accompanied by more brutal and cruel curses.
For those of you who have a hobby of satire-insinuating actions to others, you should start stopping from now huh? Here are some reasons why you must eliminate satire-satire culture in social relations.
1. Included in one of the cowards
Reluctant to talk directly but prefer to insinuate others is certainly one form of cowardice. He did not dare to insult others in front of him directly and take the road ‘winding’ with satire-satire action.
While grinning, the perpetrators of the satire action will usually feel satisfied that they have issued their guts freely even in subtle ways. The form of satire can be through expressions, gestures, expressions, to quote songs.
2. He is afraid of losing the support of those closest to him
The satire action that is often done by someone to another person is actually a form of personal fear of other people’s responses to it. Do not want to say directly and prefer to insinuate, he already feels safe when expressing his dislike to someone. In addition, he is also afraid of losing the support of those closest to him if the satire he does is not good for the surrounding environment.
3. He is also reluctant to be blamed and wants his name to be considered clean
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Allusions that usually contain insults or dislikes wrapped in certain expressions do make the culprit feel fine. He will be considered ‘clean’ by the immediate environment for not committing dishonest acts by insulting others directly. He also does not want to be blamed if there are certain people who feel not accepted by anything that comes out of his mouth. Like the expression of a stone throwing a hand, that’s the true attitude of people who like to insinuate if likened.
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4. Your innuendo can be directed at the wrong person
Humiliation or a person’s dislike expressed through innuendo will not be felt immediately by the potential victim. If you are not good at keeping your tongue from being sarcastic, your innuendo can be directed at the wrong person.
Because everyone has their own particular problems, the risk of misunderstanding can happen unexpectedly. It is futile if you are busy insinuating while the person you insinuate does not feel insinuated. What’s worse, there are other people who don’t know anything about the sudden feeling of being insinuated over your words that are indeed unfiltered.
5. Instead of insinuating, it’s better to give direct criticism!
Well, this is an important point why you should avoid quiping habits in the social sphere. Instead of expressing dislike to someone by insinuating, it is better to give direct criticism to the person concerned. In addition to the satirical culture prone to misunderstanding, it will also worsen the state of social relations between people. If you don’t like certain things about other people, it’s better to talk directly about the dislike with the person concerned.
So from now on, immediately eliminate the satire-teasing culture to others huh? Isn’t it funny, when a guy with a thick mustache and a boy with a lot of idols has a habit of insinuating? What will the world say?
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